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"Aren't you scared to be alone?  Being alone is the scariest thing that can happen to you. Who will you share your life with? Time will pass you by and you will be with absolutely no one." Now that is scary! Would you like to know what is scary? Scary is realizing that at age 30-40 you're not with the right person. Scary is having a divorce in your late 40s-50s and reflecting on how many years you threw away. Investing the majority of your prime years with someone who isn't for you, that's scary. Scary is having to work through a toxic relationship for years to try to convince yourself and your family that your love life is "doing alright"! Don't be scared to be alone.  Embrace your space and learn to love YOU first before you can love and invest your time for anyone else. You can't expect to learn to love someone else when you are barely getting to know who YOU are. It took me years to realize that I wasn't myself with the person I thoug...
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"Being a single mom is not a good look." These were my mothers words that last few months. I love my mother, she's the strongest person I know in this world. Let me start by saying I was in a relationship for almost 8 years. My life was full with luxurious items. I can say I lived a pretty decent life, financially. This luxurious life I had, came with some complexity. When you're not yourself in a relationship,  you know it's time for some change. In 2017 I was blessed with a babygirl. She's my whole entire life. Relationships aren't easy, the road was bumpy.  When I found my worth as a women, I knew I was not going to settle for less. My mom came over one Saturday afternoon, and she asked, "Are you arguing again?". Of course not, we're just not speaking. This was not healthy. My mental health was at risk for many years. I was not afraid anymore. I didn't care what THEY would say about me. My mom cried about my situation. She...
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Location: Seattle, WA, USA
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