"Aren't you scared to be alone? Being alone is the scariest thing that can happen to you. Who will you share your life with? Time will pass you by and you will be with absolutely no one." Now that is scary! Would you like to know what is scary? Scary is realizing that at age 30-40 you're not with the right person. Scary is having a divorce in your late 40s-50s and reflecting on how many years you threw away. Investing the majority of your prime years with someone who isn't for you, that's scary. Scary is having to work through a toxic relationship for years to try to convince yourself and your family that your love life is "doing alright"! Don't be scared to be alone. Embrace your space and learn to love YOU first before you can love and invest your time for anyone else. You can't expect to learn to love someone else when you are barely getting to know who YOU are. It took me years to realize that I wasn't myself with the person I thoug...